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The Doom Loop

So many people never get to enjoy their success. And certainly they never get to magnify their excellence.

Does that sound like you?

If so—what’s going on? Here’s the truth. Your Inner Gremlin we call The Doom Loop actually hates your excellence.

Because that Inner Gremlin becomes terrified every time you stand out and are acknowledged with any type of spot light.

Why? Well, here’s the psychological fact:

The Doom Loop is your negative habitualized ego structure, that part of you made up of self-criticism, self-blame, self-disapproval that you put in place long ago, some of it before you even had words, and keeps you stuck, prevents you from moving forward—that part of you that gets on the way of Magnifying Your Excellence—and like a vampire that can’t stand the light of day, the Doom Loop cannot stand the light of praise, the light of something positive shining in your direction.

And the result, after the excitement of praise diminishes, your fall back into disappointment and gloom.

Know the feeling?

You looked forward to giving making a clear presence of yourself—at work, among your friends, even on a date. And it was fun to do. You really grabbed the spotlight—the spotlight of confidence and authenticity—and you succeeded.

You were really, really fabulous!

Others said so.

But later, it snuck up on you. Criticism. Blame. Punishment. And what did you do? Dove smack into the cake and ice cream, not for just a bite. All of it. Everything that was there.

You were so successful. Too successful. You actually came close to magnifying your excellence. And now you’re in hell! What happened?

Get ready for the bottom line truth here:

The Doom Loop, your unconscious addiction to keeping yourself caught up in The Fear of Being Fabulous – is running the show. Not you.

That’s the issue. It comes up over and over with our coaching clients — and most coaches haven’t a clue how to work with it. But it’s our specialty. Helping you to Magnify Your Excellence by overcoming your fear of being fabulous is one of our most rewarding and fun commitments—because we really, really know this stuff!

That’s why we created our programs Magnify Your Excellence I and Magnify Your Excellence II.

So you could take full advantage of our expertise and in-depth processes—unlike anything you’ll find anywhere—to help you plumb the depths of your magnificence and get rid of The Doom Loop forever.

If you’re ready to get rid of your Doom Loop that keeps your caught up in The Fear of Being Fabulous unable to move, to grow, to get what you want, take the right step and magnify Your Excellence. Join us at www.magnifyyourexcellence.com/magnify.
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