When you want something really badly and you can’t have it, it almost feels like being in a straightjacket, doesn’t it? Or like being in prison, and no amount of substitutions for what you really want will do, will they? You’re not free, but you can be. You really, really can.
Your freedom to be fabulous begins in your unconscious mind, where everything that has been holding you back is buried within the recesses of your past. So, what do you do? You need to learn how to dissolve those unconscious beliefs that are creating those prison bars that are depriving you of your freedom, and it’s not nearly as difficult as you might imagine. In fact, that’s why Jim and I created our “Overcoming the Fear of Being Fabulous” program; so that you can move through that process quickly and easily.
You know, many success gurus will tell you that positive thinking is all you need, but no matter how many times you repeat a phrase, that repetition – that saying the same thing over and over and over again – just doesn’t go deep enough. It doesn’t touch the unconscious blocks and prohibitions that are standing in your way, and as a result, you won’t because you can’t create the effect you’re after. And the result of that is simply frustration and sense of personal failure.
So, what you need to do is go deeper, into the unconscious, where what has been really holding you back is there waiting for you but it’s now hidden. So, doing that work is difficult to do alone. You need a program that will show you why positive thinking is not enough, a program that will help you explore, discover and uproot the real issues that have been holding you back.
Many people say that they want more. They want to enjoy more. They want to be more, but they’re constantly frustrated, anxious and even depressed because they can’t get what they say they want. Something stands in the way.
But what’s holding them back – what’s standing in the way – has nothing to do with the outside world. In fact, it has everything to do with their lack of internal permission and it’s that lack of permission that is creating all that hold-back.
So, when you overcome your fear of being fabulous, you will open up the possibilities in your life that have not been available nor allowed by you in your life. And so, we encourage you to explore overcoming your fear of being fabulous.
Are you afraid of money? You know, a lot of people are. They’re afraid of money. Even though they say they want it, they are afraid of money, and do you know why? Because they don’t understand money. Money’s like anything else. You have to learn it, understand it and use it. You have to learn what it is, how to use it and to not be dominated by it.
Another reason that people are afraid of money is, they’ve bought in to that long-used quote that money is the root of all evil. But the fact is, it’s a Biblical quote and the actual quote is, “It’s the love of money that is the root of all evil.” So, just be aware that you don’t want to fall madly in love with money because that will cause problems.
Now, so what are you going to do about this? Well, one thing is, you need to integrate money into your life so that you use money and it doesn’t use you. And if you’re afraid of money, then it’s important that you dig into your unconscious and look for those fears and those beliefs that are holding you back from money because that’s the only way you can accumulate it and even more of it and enjoy it while you’re doing so.
I want to ask you a really personal question. Have you ever failed? Now, I’m betting that you have. In fact, you know, we all have and it’s a really, really painful feeling, isn’t it? But what if there is no such thing as failure? We don’t mean that you failed and then you learned from it and you did it better the next time. That’s not what we’re talking about. What we’re saying is, that the whole idea of failure is an illusion; a misnomer, not real.
We assure you that the idea of failure is not real because there is no such thing as failure. Think about it. You’re always succeeding. The question is, at what? Now, you may have heard us mention our program, “Overcoming the Fear of Being Fabulous.” As part of that program, you will learn just how failure is an illusion and with that insight, your whole life will open up to new possibilities of support and guidance and self-esteem and success, guaranteed.
You know, most people don’t have very positive images of relationships, and it doesn’t matter whether it’s dating or marriage, business or even friendship. Why? Because most people never get any training in good, positive relationships. In fact, their training is watching their parents or other relatives, who don’t have great relationships, or what they hear on the street from their friends, from their peers, and a lot of that we know is bogus. So, we have to be really respectful that most people don’t carry around very positive images of relationships. Quite the contrary.
So, if you want to create and sustain a really good relationship, it doesn’t have to be a mystery and it is not magical, and here’s the key. Relationship failure is a successful case of resistance. It’s resisting, and the resistance arises from the images in your unconscious that are not very good and what you don’t know, which could be supported but isn’t. And now, relationships are not automatic. They don’t fall out of the sky fully formed. You have to build your relationship, just like anything else.
So, if you know that you have a pattern of relationship failure, please recognize that that’s coming somewhere from your unconscious and we encourage you to explore what’s holding you back deep in your unconscious.
You know, unless you came from wealth, becoming wealthy is bound to change you right at the level of your identity.
A lot of people have a fear of wealth. They are afraid of becoming wealthy and there’s some good reasons for it. For example, some of the images we have of those who are wealthy. Think about King Midas. He had the golden touch. Whatever he touched turned to gold, but it left him isolated and lonely. And then, Scrooge on Christmas – he was so mean and bitter. And then Wall Street with their sociopathic need and greed for money leaves them uncaring and rapacious. So, people have a fear of wealth because all the images are mean, untrusting, rapacious, greedy. Why would you want to change your identity in that direction?
But there are so many advantages to you when you can integrate some measure of wealth into your lifestyle. You never have to worry about your survival needs ever again. You can support your family. You can support people that you love and when you don’t have to worry about your survival needs, then you can focus on your intellectual, your emotional and your spiritual growth and develop your life in a way that is far more satisfying. So, we really encourage you to integrate wealth into your identity as part of your integrity and your generosity to yourself and to others.
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